In Her Own Words
About Her
GenX queen widowed too early & have not dated since pre-college. Can you imagine? I don't interview well (but am better in person!) & am looking for opportunities to meet someone geographically close. I do not want drama; I am a major pragmatist. I take care of my fitness with standing, walking, kundalini yoga & weekly gym session & am told I have aged well for 51. Descriptors include "having nerves of steel", "strongest person I know" & also "high libido", lol. I have 0 children. I am laid back, loyal as hell, curious & always learning. Prepper light mentality, love to learn new skills or facts & listen to music, particularly alternative 90s. I know & speak my mind: "Bitch" by Meredith Brooks & Billy Joel's "She's Only a Woman" are my 2 theme songs. I have odd ideas & believe in putting my partner first. MAJOR con is I work Inpatient Hospice Fri-Sun, so I may be alone forever.
About Her Ideal Match
Witty, sarcastic & intelligent man wanting a GenX woman. It would be nice to have someone put me first sometimes. Chemistry is very important & if you follow the "love languages" concept, mine are definitely physical touch & quality time. I am happy being at home or out in nature. Cigarettes give me migraines so no deal there. I lead by example & appreciate the differences between individuals & have lots of experience in compromising. I like guys with ADHD, probably because they are a good balance to my practical, disciplined self & make my existence more fun. If you work weekends too or are just available Mon-Thur, that would really help.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Fort Bragg (Jackson Springs), North Carolina | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in North America | ||
Location: |
Cary (North Carolina) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Native American; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Sci-Fi |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Horror; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Sewing; Singing; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Bowling; Camping; Hiking; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Skateboarding; Snorkeling; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Indian; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Widows & Widowers US: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |